When Approaching Her Starts With Checking Your Account Balance

I remember when the biggest challenge was seeing a fine girl, gathering courage and trying to get her number. These days, some men first check their account balance before deciding whether to approach. With ₦100,000 in the bank, the calculations can start quickly: transport, food, data, outings, bills, unexpected requests and other expenses. A relationship should not automatically become a financial burden, especially when a person is still trying to survive and build something. There is nothing wrong with spending on someone you genuinely like when you can afford it. But no one should sacrifice rent, work transport, savings or a business plan just to maintain another person's attention. Generosity should be appreciated, not turned into an expectation. Sometimes the wise choice is to admire her, smile and focus on your hustle. Love is important, but financial stability matters too.

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