Money Cannot Buy Genuine Attraction
Many Nigerian men confuse spending money with building attraction. Gifts, transfers, fancy dates and “hair money” may get a woman’s attention, but they do not automatically make her genuinely interested in you. If her energy is cold, sending more money or buying bigger gifts may only increase the benefits of keeping you around. It may not change how she feels about you. Romance her and enjoy your money together if you can afford it. But attraction should come first. Confidence, decisiveness and self-respect matter more than trying to negotiate desire with spending. Money can amplify real attraction and create access. It cannot buy genuine desire.
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