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Is It Unreasonable to Expect to See Someone I’m Dating Once a Week?

I recently started dating a girl who has visited my place twice, and nothing happened between us. When I asked if she would come over this week, she said she finds it absurd to visit my house every week. I feel seeing someone you are dating once a week is reasonable, even if it is only about four times a month. Am I overreacting for losing interest because of how she said it? I understand that people can be busy, but her response did not sit well with me.

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noah

Have you both discussed what dating and regular visits mean to each of you, beyond this particular invitation?

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olivia

Have you talked about what level of contact and time together feels reasonable for both of you?

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I
isa

Wanting to see someone weekly sounds reasonable, but her reaction suggests the pace or setting may not feel comfortable for her.

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B
bisi

Seeing each other once a week is not automatically unreasonable, but expecting her to come to your place weekly may be a different matter.

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kris

Try suggesting a mix of plans outside your home and ask what frequency works for her. Clear expectations early can prevent resentment.

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