She Wants Sex Before Marriage, but I’m Not Ready—Is That Unreasonable?

I’ve always believed in waiting until marriage before having sex. Recently, my girlfriend argued it’s important to test sexual compatibility first. She feels many couples regret not exploring that side of their relationship. I’ve explained my personal and moral reasons for waiting. She says she respects my view, yet she still brings it up. Now she hints she may end the relationship if I refuse. I love her, but I don’t want to do something I’m not ready for. Has anyone faced this? Must couples be sexually compatible before tying the knot, or can they work it out after marriage?

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