My Girlfriend’s Club Life Has Left Me Doubting Our Relationship

I’ve been struggling with insecurity in my relationship. My girlfriend gets attention from other men, and I find myself wondering whether I’m the only person she’s seeing, even though I haven’t found clear evidence that she is unfaithful. I’ve checked her phone before, but I asked her to change her password because I didn’t want to keep looking for something that might not be there. I once saw a group notification on her phone that appeared to share party and hookup opportunities. She told me she was added to the group but only viewed the posts, and that club promoters sometimes invite her and her friends to stay overnight. I also get upset when she goes out without telling me, including when she attended a mutual friend’s birthday at a club. We’re currently on a break. I’ve decided I want to end the relationship, and I’ve imagined doing it abruptly during an intimate moment so she’ll see I can live without her. I know that would be hurtful, but I’m still angry and unsure how to handle the breakup.

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