Effort Cannot Create Attraction: Know When to Step Back

Many men hear what a woman says she wants and rush to become exactly that. They call every day, plan dates, check in constantly and spend money, hoping their effort will create feelings. But kindness, generosity and attention do not automatically lead to attraction. A woman may appreciate the effort and still not see the man romantically. Show genuine interest and make reasonable effort, but pay attention to what comes back. Does she make time for you, reach out sometimes and make it easier to get closer? Do not keep increasing your effort to force attraction. Build on mutual interest, and accept that not everyone you like will feel the same way.

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