Why Showing Interest Does Not Automatically Create Attraction

Many men believe that if they call, plan dates, check in often and keep proving they are serious, a woman will eventually choose them. But effort alone does not create attraction. You can be clear about your interest without turning the relationship into an audition. Do not pretend to be nonchalant either. Let her know you like her, then pay attention to whether she responds with the same energy. When the interest is mutual, communication and effort usually feel easier. If you are constantly chasing, trying to convince her or being asked to prove yourself, take a step back. Wanting her does not automatically mean she wants you too.

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