PLS PLAY THIS SONG FOR YOUR MAN OR WOMAN TONGIHT 
TITLE ; ORUKA TI DOWO NA BY SUNNY NEJI 

Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai titi lai o
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai
Titi lai lai lai lai lai lai lai lai lai
He who finds a wife has found a good thing
And obtains favor from the lord
You've found the harmony to the song you sing
You can do anything they wanna call you
You're her father her brother her lover her cover her teacher her everything
She is your mother your sister your lover you cover your teacher your everything
Oun ni imole aiye re
So don't take her smile away oh no
Oun ni alabaro re
From today your wedding day
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai
Its your wedding day so be happy and rejoice
Whatever they say today you made your choice
This is only where one and one is one
Ololufe re together you belong
Oun ni imole aiye re
So don't take her smile away
Oun ni alabaro re
From today your wedding day
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai titi lai
Oruka ti d'owo naa
Di ololufe re mu
K'o s'eni to le ya yin titi lai titi lai
Titi lai lai lai lai lai lai
Na na na oh oh oh oh
The Lord is your shepherd you shall not want
He will lead you by the still waters
He's always there so you have nothing to fear
Common say bye bye bye bye to mommy
Bye bye bye bye to daddy
You want to be with your wifey
Bye bye bye bye to daddy mommy say
You want to be with your hussy
Bye bye bye bye to daddy
Mommy don't cry cause your baby girl has become a woman
Daddy don't cry cause your baby boy has become a man today
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy ba bye bye
Bye bye bye bye to daddy ba bye bye
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy
Bye bye bye bye to daddy ba bye bye
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy ba bye bye
Bye bye bye bye to daddy ba bye bye
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy ba bye by
Bye bye bye bye to daddy brother dont cry
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy sister dont cry
Bye bye bye bye to daddy aunty dont cry
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy uncle dont cry
Bye bye bye bye to daddy ba bye bye
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy ba bye by
Bye bye bye bye to daddy ba bye bye
Ba ba bye bye bye bye bye to Mommy ba bye by
Bye bye bye bye to daddy ba bye bye

Very Important Message For Couples

Hello Everyone, please I need as much input as possible on this matter. 
I have a family person who is married to a Yoruba man ( please I can't say the exact state in South west). They have been married for over 8 years now with four kids, but recently decided to take the bull by the horn. She left with the kids recently when he travelled to another state for an event. I will try as much as possible to cover the issues that we need help to deal with.
1) The wife and children doesn't get good food to eat. Sometimes when she asks for money to cook, he dips his hand into his pocket and gives her 200 naira. Mind you, he is a Lecturer with a PhD.
2) The wife gives birth through CS, there was never a time when he ever prepared. The last baby she had, she almost went blind because she is hypertensive, and thought of trying normal labour after being booked for CS because of his attitude.
3) Since she left over two months, he has never bothered to ask how they are feeding. It was when they had travelled for over a month he asked where they were, without bothering to come then.
4) He verbally abuses her. He keeps telling people and even told her to her face that she is the witch hindering his progress. He told their first son too that she is a witch and tried to kill him when he was little ( there was an accident that occured).
5) Several people have tried to mediate, but he has refused to change. Infact, he told her even if Jesus comes down things will not change.
I could go on and on but this will not end.
Is there a human rights organization/body that can help her, because the man is not willing to change. Normally in working countries, deductions will be made from his salary for the children's upkeep. Is there anyway to fight for this. He earns close to 200k in a month.

Non-supportive Husband

Life is cluttered with so many unfulfilled promises, some are intentional, some are not. 
In the wake of all these disappointments lies a myriad of distrust and marred integrities. I've been a victim and also a culprit. I've made promises I couldn't fulfill and I've been promised great things that never came to pass. Having had a fair share of both scenarios I came to finalize that in every case of an unfulfilled pledge there's always a victim to cry foul and a culprit with a justifiable excuse for failing and ofcourse trust is the endangered virtue. The table keeps turning as a culprit today might be a victim tomorrow and vice versa. 

In our relationships between our mortal likes and our Supreme Immortal above which is God, a certain degree of trust is required to maintain the rapport from its incipience. Psychology says that every human has one trust allocated to every other human it has a relationship with and once it's broken there's no reserved or spare trust left. This postulate could be true for some and untrue for others, some never trust again while some continue anyway and apply caution which apparently indicates uncertainty. The numbered subheadings below would save your integrity a lot more than you think. If you really want to keep promises follow these rules. 

1. DON'T PROMISE AT ALL 

Yea, don't promise at all. Asides the damaged trust you've earned yourself with people, you're invariably a liar. You can evade promises by inserting statements like "let's see how it goes" or "I'll try my best but not an assurance". Whoever is the recipient of any of these sentences is already contemplating alternatives and substitutes in your stead. If the person still decides to have a fait accompli on you, then the game is on him, but at least you've raised a flag of uncertainty exonerating yourself of the aftermath beforehand. Even the Bible encouraged a sealed lip rather than uttering vows you know are beyond your redemption. 

2. LEAVE FAITH OUT OF IT 

Oftentimes we make promises and leave it at the feet of faith, especially when it has to do with hard currencies. "I'll make sure that by the end of this year every kid gets a free iPad " and then you go to bed with a faith that everything will pan out well and money will be attracted to you like little helpless pins in the face of a magnet. That's downright silly. What if life knocks you down with one it's evil trucks and you're financially bankrupt. You have a host of kids on your tail demanding for their pads. Such promises hold a special abode in their hearts and of course you are in trouble. Be at least 90% certain of the available resources you have to pull off any big project before spilling out. Most people will never understand the obstacles you encountered after making the troth because some of them aren't even close to you. To them you're just one of those promise-and-fail deceptive humans. 

3. SET A REMINDER 

We're always engulfed in life's numerous entanglements and necessities and it's not out of place for one to just make a commitment and dump it in the cloud of oblivion. These reminders are programmed to poke you daily of the pledge you made, the device can never forget its daily task. A constant poking creates that consciousness of your vows and as such you'll strive to get that part of your business done and dusted. Reminders could be set on almost anything, it could be that laundry you promised your Dad, that trip to the grocery store for your Mum, that promise to fix a damaged item for a friend, that promise to make an inquiry for someone in a distant city about something he needs in your city. Anything fella, just set the damn reminder. Most times having the resources to redeem promises is not the problem, forgetting is. 

4. MAKE SACRIFICES 

So you made the promise out of pride cos everyone has done so and your ego and dignity is at stake crying out for salvation. Beautiful, it's not that bad, sacrifice your time or money to present you as a faithful fella. Whatever circumstances that left you choiceless but to pledge either in a relationship, church, social setting, name it, always try your best and go out of your way to fulfill it. Doing this raises your credibility bar and forces everyone to cut you large slacks in a case where you were unable to fulfil another pledge on schedule. That level of trust so built keeps their hopes high on you, knowing that just as destiny as you are, maybe delayed but can't be denied. Trust humans, they will sing praise songs to your reliability which will place you in a spot where doing otherwise rather than fulfilling a vow is never an option. 

5. STRIVE TO BE RICH 

The rich deliver on the spot, there's no need for the i-will-do-this phrases. There's always a check at pockets reach to scribble out the bucks. The only exception to this rule is when there's a picture of an asset, say a building project in the scene, which we all know takes time but limited time anyway because of the availability of the wherewithal. For most people, money is everything and they take promises of its nature seriously. This kind may never forgive you. Hope deferred maketh the heart sick. It's right there in the Bible Proverbs 13:12 . So make more more instead of making hearts sick, make more money so you can do on the spot delivery, make more money so even your promises will be respected and held in high regard. If Dangote, Otedola, Elumelu and their likes tell you they'll do something good for you especially when it has to do with money, all you need to do is to go home and be happy and pray nothing changes their mind. 

FINAL NOTE 

THE world would be a better place filled with harmonious ecstasies if we all try to keep promises made. The first class culprits of this social misdemeanor are our politicians. In a bid to entice and win the hearts of electorates, they spill vacuum pledges in return for numerous chants, praises and franchises in their favor. I've never seen anything so beautiful in politics than a smug face of a politician at the end of his tenure on a billboard with the inscription "A Promise Kept " and a photo montage of his legacies and achievements. One Governor in Nigeria comes to mind. A reputation is built on solid rocks. Trust is earned. Everyone is Happy. I rest my case here.

How To Keep Promises And Earn The Trust Of People

Hey ladies.. (guys too - for referral)
I am searching for a lady from the age of 18-30 that is interested in having a Kid with a "Partner".. 
I used the word "Partner" cos I am not interested in marriage for now..

Said lady Can come from any part of the country, can be a Christian, Muslim or atheist, don't care about that, she must be a minimum of 6/10 in outward appearance rating, Her Genotype doesn't matter cos I am AA..

Educational background.. Sound Waec is the minimum,PHD holders are appreciated too, I care less about your qualifications even thou I am a post graduate student currently..

Any other requirements would be communicated to the person involved upon contacting me..

So any lady that meets these basic requirements should feel free to send me a PM..
And any gentleman that knows a lady that meets the requirements and interested too can refer her to me,be it a naijaworlder or not..

Thanks in anticipation Mates.

Interested In Having A Kid With A "Partner" ?? Or Know A Lady That Is... Come In

I wouldn't blame him that much people always takes him as the eldest when we walk together even though am older than him with 3years when we were kids... we use to fight then alot and I'm ashamed to say he does overpower me sometimes but always gets scolded by our parent's. fast forward to now he still does same act, challenge me at any giving time.. what happened yesterday evening made me ask God why was I created this way, because I know if I was someone who had strength he wouldn't have dared to say those awful words to me.
I hate it everytime people stand to defend me just because my younger brother is abusing me always.. it's so painful and i wish theys something I can do for myself.

My Younger Brother Always Challenge My Authority Because Of My Small Statue

Good morning naijaworlders, please I need urgent help.

My relationship is on the verge of break up due to genotype issue and I sincerely need your advice. I will appreciate if medical experts on this field and those with experience can help out and Share their experience.

I love this lady so much and she's everything any man can pray for except for the genotype. She equally love me so much as well.
On her part, she has booked consultation with doctors and all they keep telling her isn't good at all. No hope at all.

On my part, I have this strong believe that we will give birth to health kids since we are not planning on having much. Maximum of three.
I have also done some researches and also heard about "bridgeclinic". I don't know if it will work and the success rate.

Please, is there any hope at all or not.
I really appreciate your advice as I anticipate them.
Thank you

Please ��� mod.

Genotype Is About To Break My Relationship, Please Help

We all know some parents still don’t believe in saving money in banks. Some still use the traditional means of saving while others have bank accounts but prefer to save using other means like Ajo.

Now how do I convince my parents to start trading cryptocurrency. Have you ever wondered what it'll be like trying to explain how cryptocurrency works to parents who don't already know about it? 

They will say this one is another Ponzi scheme oo 

What is the best way to explain to them and how hard do you think it'll be before they'll fully understand it?

How Do You Explain Cryptocurrency To Your Nigeria Parents

First of all, naijaworlders please join me in celebrating the birth of my child, the first fruit of my womb. He was born on Sunday, 19th of June, 2022.

To the main reason of this thread. 

So the beautiful heavenly gift came on Sunday although it was through CS. We didn't plan for that but since it didn't happen the natural way, the doctor resorted to C-S. I thank God that both the baby and I are fine. 

The issue now is my landlord. Our house rent expired ending of April. It been difficult for my husband and I to renew it after losing his job since February and hasn't been able to get another one yet. The truth is we are struggling to survive due to how hard things are, to a point we often times travel to the village to do farming work to support us. 

All the while we have been pleading with the landlord to give us a little time but after the childbirth on Sunday, the landlord brought a letter on Tuesday, giving us till the last day of the month to pay up or quit his property before 2nd day of July - Just 9 days away. 

Could he possibly be hating on us over the birth of the child? Hospital bills are still unpaid and he has without mercy issued us 9 days (now left with 7 days) to pay or quit. He said that anyone who stays in his property must have the habit of renewing the rent even before it expires. 

For the money, we are only hoping on God but could this kind of act signify hatred please, considering the little issue we had with him in time past which was even started by him? He is fully aware of the childbirth and the circumstances.

Could My Landlord Be Hating The Birth Of My Child?

My whole family both mum and dads side if I'm being honest they're about 600 living members (I'm not playing) I really don't enjoy such crowd cos I'm a highly reserveder person, I like my own space reason why I moved far away from everyone.....At a point in my life I thought I'll run mad due to all the chaos, crowd and the noise, it was hectic.... Too many weddings and events I never wanted to attend cos I always ended up getting sick..... somehow I felt like I didn't fit in with this people, it felt as if my real life was being lived by someone else somewhere.

So how was the experience growing up in a large family?

What Was It Like Growing Up In A Polygamous Family?

> Elon Musk's son Xavier, 18, files petition to change their GENDER to become a woman named Vivian Jenna Wilson and says it's because 'I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form'

• Elon Musk son Xavier, 18, has filed to legally change their gender from male to female and lose their last name
• They filed the petition in April to take their mother's maiden name and want to be called Vivian Jenna Wilson
• Xavier wrote in the California court filing they do not want to be tied to father Musk in 'any way, shape or form'
• Entrepreneur Musk, 50, had Xavier and twin Griffin with his first wife, Canadian author Justine Wilson in 2004
• A hearing on the petition is scheduled for Friday and will take place before a judge in Santa Monica, California

By HARRIET ALEXANDER FOR DAILYMAIL.COM
PUBLISHED: 00:58, 21 June 2022 | UPDATED: 14:25, 21 June 2022

Elon Musk's 18 year-old son has filed court documents seeking to legally change their gender from male to female and lose their last name, stating: 'I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form.'

Xavier Musk, 18, filed the paperwork in Santa Monica, California, on April 18, seeking to be known as Vivian Jenna Wilson. The transgender teenager explained that they wish to take their mother's last name to distance them from their dad.

They have not commented on whether they receive financial support from their dad - whose $213 billion dollar fortune makes him the world's richest man. 

Musk was married to Vivian's mother, Canadian author Justine Wilson, from 2000 until 2008. Their first son, Nevada, was born in 2002 and died of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) at 10 weeks. The pair went on to have twin sons - Xavier and Griffin - and triplet boys: Damian, Kai and Saxon, now 16. 

The five teenagers have kept a fairly low profile, despite their father having joint custody. Musk also two other children, X Æ A-Xii and Exa Dark Sideræl, who goes by Y, with Canadian singer Grimes. 

It is unclear what is behind Xavier's rejected of their father, in such a public way. Musk has yet to comment, and it is unclear if he was aware of Xavier's plan prior to the court documents being filed. 

Musk has been vocal on various transgender issues and last year he complained about people using their own pronouns. He also said he was a fan of Florida governor Ron DeSantis who has been condemned by the LGBTQ community for his bill preventing discussion of gender identity and homosexuality in classrooms for children in kindergarten through third grade.

Elon Musk and his second wife, British actress Talulah Riley, are pictured in 2015 with Xavier and Griffin. The twins are now 18

Musk has been publicly disowned by his oldest child, who no longer wishes to be associated with him 'in any way, shape or form'

Musk and Justine Wilson, mother of his five teenagers, are pictured in an undated photo. The pair were together from 2000 to 2008

Musk last week called out 'virtual signaling' critics who panned a new Ricky Gervais stand-up comedy special after the show was slammed for being 'transphobic'.

'I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form'.

Elon Musk's Transgender Daughter Is Changing Her Name To DITCH Musk

Please someone should help me out on what to do.
I keep changing batteries on this wall clock every 2 weeks. The one that pains me pass, just last week I changed it again and yesterday when I came back from work I saw the Seconds hand dangling to and fro.
Battery dead again.
How can I be spending N100 every 2 weeks on this clock. I am so sad right now.
I feel like smashing it to the ground right now let everything just end in peace but something in me is pitying it because it is still new and beautiful. 
Could it be that the clock and the batteries are fake?
Or could it be that my village people are playing pranks with the clock to use it to finish all my money?
Help!

Help! My Wall Clock "MARBLE" Is A Battery Assassin

NB-This is a didactical thread.

Now, this matter of justice is important. It is clear that there are two types of justice, and that is, first of all, what has to be classified, because one thing is subjective justice, and another is objective justice. One thing is the justice of this world, the subjective courts, and another is the Courts of Celestial Justice. They are different.

Thus, one has to fully differentiate between this subjective justice, that is bought and sold, and the objective justice, where it is not possible to bribe the judge. 
The Courts of Celestial Justice are completely different. This matter of Justice is worth comprehending.
But, well, what can ordinary people know about justice?

What Does It Really Mean To Be Good? What Is Justice?

Tears Flow As Quintuplet Brothers Carry Their Only Dead Sister’s Coffin – Photos

A quintuplet girl being brought to her grave was captured in a heartbreaking photo.

As they transported their dead sister’s body to be buried, the kids could be seen crying. Throughout the whole funeral procession, they also appeared shocked and lost.

When their only sister passed away from natural causes, the brothers were shocked. They started crying uncontrollably since they had no idea what to do with themselves.

A full family was spotted carrying the casket while donning matching dresses and veils.

As they carried their sister’s casket, the four siblings were observed sobbing in front of onlookers. They attended the event with their parents at their sides.

They were unable to take it anymore, so they assisted their parents in carrying their only deceased sister’s glass coffin. There was one female and four boys. The only girl passed away, leaving behind four twins.

Below are their photos:

Tears Flow As Quintuplet Brothers Carry Their Only Dead Sister’s Coffin – Photos

Good morning everyone,
Pardon me if I am posting this under the wrong section (this is my first time of posting on this platform).

To the matter....
I need legal & other advice on how to handle a situation that's causing me a lot of mental stress. I loaned 280,000 Naira to my cousin's husband around January for his business. There was no written agreement (I blame myself for this) because I felt it would be awkward to ask a family member to sign papers before I help him. Although I have other proofs like recorded calls and conversations where I asked for my money and he kept on begging for more time. The agreement we had was for him to payback by March. I had plans to purchase a fairly used Keke-napep with this 280k (plus some money I had reserved in my account). 

When it was time to pay, I called him a lot to ask for my money. Sometimes, he'll pick and beg for more time. Sometimes, he'll pick and just leave me saying "hello hello hello" without a word from him. Most of the time he won't even pick my calls. He once asked me to send my account number but he didn't send anything (I felt like a joke). This went on from March, April & May. During this period, I had spent, on feeding & other bills, all the money I was supposed to add to the 280k in order to purchase the Keke-napep. This Keke-napep would have generated money for this bills if I had bought it then. 

I've been staying at his place since beginning on this month because I don't have any money to fend for myself. When I came here, he told me that his customers promise to send the money before 15th of this month but they didn't. Now he said they promise to send it by the end of this month. All these while I have been patient and tolerant with everything, including the treatment I've been receiving since I came here (I don't even want to go into these treatments). I've been staying indoor since I came here because I don't know anywhere in this area. Just sitting one place and waiting for time to run makes me think about a lot of things and it's depressing. 

I can't take this anymore. Even if I have a soft spot for family members, I also need to think of myself by taking necessary measures to get my money back before they ruin my plan of purchasing something that will help me survive daily. I need advice, please

Should I Arrest & Sue My Brother-in-law For This? I Need Advice

Please matured naijaworlders I need your help. I’m beyond livid, angry is an understatement this very moment.

I’m currently undergoing my Nysc away from home. I received a message from my sister about my dad beating my mom in the PUBLIC.

Neighbors and all were looking and some were laughing, he bought out her things and my sis said he was pressing her neck and had petrol in his hands (this got me mad)

As it is she is complaining of stomach pains and neck pain after calling my sister. I have sent her money to take my mom to hospital and she said dad has left home to somewhere God knows. I have called my friend to check up on them.

I’m just 22 and have my life to face and now I’m facing this again from home. As it is I need a solution, I’m thinking of renting a place for her and set up a business for her although I don’t fancy separation but at this point I need to take her away from him.

As for him, I don’t want to ever call him, we spoke a day before what he did. I’m looking for how to deal with this situation.

Please mods should take this to front page, I need all the advice I can get, I must deal with this situation, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

I’m Livid With My Dad, He Hit My Mom Again. I Need A Solution.

I have the following items for sake. Neatly used.

1. LMV baby cot. Comes with a free vitafoam baby cradle bed. 20k.

2. double electric breast pump comes with a free nuby new bottle 8k.

3. Lighting macqueen baby walker 8k 

4. Summer infant foldable bathtub 10k comes with a free changing mat wallet.

4. Infantino ergonomic carrier , nursing pillow, big changing mat purse with space for wipe case, diapers, change of pants. Everything 12k.

5. Halogen Oven 10k..

6. 5 bags of livia lactation tea that increase breast milk production 12k. Single 2500..

7. Nursing bag 5k.

Please this is an urgent sale.
Location is in ikeja lagos. Call 090.26.77.29.43.

Delivery is on you.

Baby Item Sales.

My first salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid. 

Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him. 

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it. 

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me. 

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions. 

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single. 

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband. 

Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home. 

Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about. 

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men needs our support too

How I Supported My Husband With My First Salary

since ASUU had gone on strike and my mum business had long crumbled for years back.

Things are getting so tough for me , that my house rent had even expired at school and the landlord is pressuring me since to pack out 

so my own is just a minor issh but about my mum I really wish I can support her so her business can grow small small .

because she do support me too whenever she have but right now its not easy.

so am thinking if I should take the risk and apply for load and give her to start up a business and also pay her house rent but am just scared....
considering the fact that venturing into businesses is 50/50.

I am just scared

Should I Apply For A Loan For My Mum?

Good day everyone I’ll be brief as possible and I brought this issue to NW to seek advise from well meaning people whom believe can proffer solution to this problem.First to start with My Dad Is the eldest in the family making him automatically the head of the family (OLORI EBI).He’s over 80 years old and down with STROKE.All his older and younger siblings are dead making him the surviving child of their father(I.e My gran father)

Now back to the matter we have a family house in Mushin, Lagos built by my grand father in the early 80’s and when he died he passed it on the children(including my dad ) to manage it but the problem is before my dads eldest brother(My uncle) died he sheepishly collected the House documents from my dad and passed it on to his son(My cousin) who is not even the rightful person to be in charge of the house documents 

Now this my evil cousin(Who is in his early 60’s)has a bakery and even built an hotel on the family house without informing my father about the development.From the look of things he is so diabolical and fetish.We don’t live around the family house but he has chosen to be lord over the family house due to the I’ll health of my dad. I’m not fighting for property but I think it’s wrong for someone more or less like a child controlling the property of the family when There is a head 

Now my question is should we take a redress in court or kukuma sell the house and share whatever proceeds that come from it Or I should just mobilize Boys to teach him a lesson . But I think he will not be happy judging from the fact that he built a story building hotel … pls I need good advise from people thanks

Help!!! My Paternal Cousin Wants To Inherit The Family House

Whenever you think about altering your kitchen's look with the lighting or plan to incorporate some new lighting, you should once bear in mind the effect that lighting can have in your kitchen. 

Well-thought-out lighting can boost up your kitchen's entire appeal.

You may ignore it, but it is a fact that every little detail and fixture can create a huge difference. 

Lighting Types And The Way They Enhance Your Kitchen Appeal

Perfect kitchen lighting can fix the tone and mood of all aspects of your home, particularly the kitchen. To know further - drill down!

1: Accent Lights

As the name indicates, Accent kitchen lighting adds depth and dimensions to your kitchen if used appropriately. You can even use adjustable lighting s and track lighting as an accent light.

Accent lights are least used to fascinate and highlight the different features of your kitchen, such as valuated ceiling, fan hood, and even fireplace. 

The accent light looks cooler when they are appropriately installed and used. If you use accent lights appropriately and carefully, they can transform your kitchen into a museum. 

2: Decorative Lighting

Many interior designers' opinion is that decorative lighting adds a completely different type of zing to the kitchen’s ambiance. These kinds of lighting make your kitchen different from the conventional one. Using decorative kitchen lighting with the appropriate lighting fixtures can boost your kitchen's appeal without affecting the touch of simplicity.

To avoid any hassle or inconvenience, you can get an expert kitchen contractor’s advice on installing kitchen lighting to get a clever, good-looking, and hardworking kitchen scheme. Experts can amazingly improve the lighting layout and sync it with your daily routine!

3: Ambient Lights

Ambient lighting gives a diffused and soft glow to your kitchen. This glow can be obtained with recessed lights, ceiling-mounted lighting fixtures, washers, or kitchen wall lighting.

For small kitchens, flush mounts, recessed lights, and semi-flush mount ceiling lights are good as they don't take up massive kitchen space.

If you want to develop a warm kitchen atmosphere in the evening (particularly when living in cool areas), select transitional lights that can turn from cool to warm. These lights offer versatility!

Many lights can adjust the tone; they get cool when cooking and get warm when entertaining or dining. 

4: Task Lighting

Task lighting is also a special type of lighting typically used to light up kitchen areas where you work to get your food ready. For instance, task lights are installed near countertops, so this area can directly catch up to the light and make your cutting, chopping, and cooking easy. 

Other than countertops, you can also use task lights inside your pantry closet so that the goods placed on the shelves become easily visible to you. 

If you are looking for task lights, it is great to go for puck lights or LED strip lights with low voltage - these will work fine in your kitchen. 

5: General Lighting

The basic purpose of general lighting is to fill the gaps in the area where you feel more lighting is required. 

For general lighting, kitchen contractors prefer to use recessed lights as recessed lights are great enough to brighten the kitchen space effectively. 

One more critical thing to mention is that lighting such as a pendant or chandelier installed on the kitchen island is also considered general lighting. 

6: Toe Kick Lights

These kinds of kitchen lighting systems are usually installed under the cabinets. The major purpose of these toe kick lights is to illuminate the kitchen floor. It often works as a night light - when you visit the kitchen for snacks craving, these lights help you get your snacks faster and without any hassle. 

Final Words

Lighting can make your kitchen an inviting and welcoming space - if used rightfully, your kitchen atmosphere will become purposeful. Right lighting ensures the kitchen's cleanliness and visibility, so whatever you perform becomes clear and easy.

So, we can say that kitchen lights are not all about functionality, but it also impacts the kitchen appeal. So, whatever type you decide to incorporate, consider both factors (appeal and functionality) and the focal point.

How Kitchen Lighting Makes A Difference To The Whole Design Scheme

I'm writing this with a heavy heart but i'm not requesting for help cos i don't need it.

Things have not been easy with me for some time, i decided to be a middleman between the farmers and people in town, i deal mainly with yam,orange,tomatoes or farm product that is in my village and send it to people in town, i use to get like 5-10k per trip which help me in taking care of my family. about 2weeks back, some people needed oranges in large quantity in abuja, i immediately source for oranges at 2500 per bag in the village with the intention of selling it in abj at 7500. Good profit right? 

it turned out to be the worst business i ever engage in. How? Let me go in details

How I Lost My Life Saving.

I almost died yesterday. I don't know if it was the angel of death that decided to visit me or something else. I woke up having an insatiable craving for ofe akwu cooked with stock fish and goat meat. I usually go to oyingbo to get stock fish. It's usually bigger and much cheaper than where I stay. When I was done with my morning chores, I started my journey.

Immediately I landed in oyingbo. Like immediately I came down from the bus I started hearing gunshots right there. Before I could say "jack robinson" there was pandemonium everywhere. Traders left their goods and ran away. Danfo buses packed on the other side of the road close to the BRT bus stop started driving away immediately. I started running like a wild beast. It was crazy, I was trying to stop a bus and go home but none was budging I had to tell the guy who stopped that I would give him 4000 naira. He should just get me to a safe distance. 

On our way, the guy said what happened today happens everyday at oyingbo that at least 3 people are killed everyday and many more are robbed at night. This is so weird that this happens and I don't see it on any news outlet. If it happened on the island or something, one wouldn't rest at all.

This makes no sense, you could pretty much leave your house on the island come to the market at oyingbo to get something and get killed in the process. It seems that poor people's lives are less important than rich people in Nigeria. It's so funny that yaba is considered as the sillicon valley of Nigeria and oyingbo where all this happens is just a 3 min drive away and honestly a 10 to 15 min walk away.

Nna this country is just finished I pity anyone who has hope in Nigeria. I even saw policemen running away. There's a police station directly under the flyover that's being built and this happens regularly and absolutely nothing has happened. It's absolutely ridiculous. 

This is why I believe the government should strongly regulate child bearing in Nigeria. There are people who by virtually of their circumstances financially and mentally should just not have any children. It costs so much to train a child to become a responsible member of the society. Failure to do so means that everyone else will suffer. I could have just died for nothing cause of longer throat.

With Regards To Nigeria, Why Do We Only Get To Hear Of Crimes In Elite Areas

There is a popular conviction among Nigerians, perhaps influenced by culture, that men should be hard working and bare sole responsibility of the family's finance. 
Well things are changing and the economic reality we face proves it takes more than 1 to finance a family. More so, some wives are more fortunate to earn better than the husband or have a high yielding business compared to their spouse. 
How happy do men feel when they realize that their wife earns better than them? If its a man that practices polygamy, imagine having two or three wives with good paying jobs.

Men Married To Women Who Are Much More Financially Bouyant

Please is it a crime to decide not to marry? 
My mother have stop receiving anything from me because she insisted I must get married, 
Am the only son in the family of 6 girls,am the second child, Am 37 years, there are some certain things that made me not want to get married, ,am living comfortable and don't want to have anything with ladies,
Can't I make decision for my self , I don't need a woman in my life, she always cry anytime I come home that she need grand children,all my sisters have been begging me I don't know what to do,how do I go about this, should I stop coming home? as a matter of fact my sisters always come to my house with their girlfriend and she will tell me ,this one is still single oo.

My Mom Has Been On My Neck Because Of This

A 53 years old man and a father of three children lamented his wife left him for a man with unknown source of wealth. According to the man, He came with his wife to the man's house to secure a job for him because the man has been helping others that are jobless through the information the wife gave him. She introduced him to the man officially as her husband and pleaded with the man to help him for a job. she thereafter left with the kids and promised to come back within a week. The supposed helper agreed to help him at any cost, but left him for a trip to Abuja. The man came back with some big men after three days. when he came back he told him to be patient because to get a lucrative job in the country needs endurance and patient. click here to continue.

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