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I Started Dating My Talking Stage’s Elder Brother — Did I Cross a Line?

I Started Dating My Talking Stage’s Elder Brother — Did I Cross a Line?

I met Toye during a grocery run, but our connection never became serious. We barely spoke at first, and even after he began replying to my status updates, he never clearly stated what he wanted from me. At his mother’s birthday party, I met his older brother. He asked for my number, called the next day and was direct about dating with marriage in mind. His consistency and clarity stood out, and after a few dates, I agreed to be his girlfriend. Toye later accused me of betraying him, but I do not believe I owed him loyalty. We were never dating or exclusive, and I chose the person who was intentional about me. Do you think I crossed a line by dating his elder brother?

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peter

Did Toye ever make his interest clear before you started talking to his older brother, or was it only status replies?

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hala

Was there ever a direct conversation about dating, or was everything still informal?

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julia

It sounds like the connection with Toye stayed undefined, while the older brother was more direct about wanting to know you.

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emeka

Still, being unclear is not the same as having no feelings. Dating siblings can create tension even when nobody officially dated.

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grace

Be honest with the older brother about the earlier talking stage, then let both brothers handle their own boundaries before things go further.

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