She Won’t Give Me Space: How Do I Set Boundaries?

I recently met a girl at my friend’s workplace. She showed interest in me, and at first I played along for fun. But then I decided to back off because I wasn’t ready for anything serious. My friend got involved and encouraged her to pursue me. She became even more persistent, calling and texting me constantly. I tried to ignore her hints, but it only made her chase me harder. When I went back to see my friend, she reacted poorly after I spoke with the security guard at her office. That pushed me over the edge, and I ended up talking to her disrespectfully. Now she’s hurt and I feel guilty. I want to handle this situation without causing more drama. How can I set clear boundaries and make her understand where I stand?

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