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matthew·Dating· Aug 20, 2026

Don’t Date Someone You Can’t Realistically See Yourself Marrying

Attraction can make us ignore warning signs we would normally notice. Some people overshare from day one, rush to build an imaginary future, or become controlling and chaotic when things do not go their way. Others need constant reassurance, overtext, and react badly to disappointment. Good looks, excitement, or money can make these red flags easier to overlook. But even when dating casually, choose someone you could realistically see as a healthy long-term partner. Not every relationship must lead to marriage. The point is that superficial attraction alone should not give someone access to your life.

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