Stop Blaming Relationship Influencers for Your Own Choices

If your relationship ended because of advice from Gehgeh or red-pill content, do not blame them alone. You are responsible for the choices you make and how you treat your partner. The message, in my view, is not that men should abandon their girlfriends or wives. It is that men should set boundaries, make sensible financial decisions and avoid spending beyond their means to keep a relationship. For example, a man should not delay his life or go broke trying to meet every financial demand in a relationship. Both partners should contribute effort, respect each other and build something sustainable. There may be useful lessons in this content, but men should apply them with maturity. Self-respect and financial discipline should not become hostility towards women.

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