In a relationship no woman is ever a victim rather an architect to her problems. Because when it comes to relationships, men take CHANCES. They approach & can either get accepted OR rejected. Whilst women make CHOICES. They get approached & get to choose yes OR no... That your bf/hubby is a cheater it's your CHOICE That your baby daddy is a deadbeat it's your CHOICE That your man is abusive, it's your CHOICE That your man is lazy, it's your CHOICE That your man doesn't want to marry you after all these years, it's your CHOICE You literally had multitudes of guys approaching you & you turned them all down for that one. That was your choice, you chose that man, on your own. Stop complaining to us about your choices, be accountable & stop this victimhood!