Is Cheating Always a Dealbreaker? It Depends on the Agreement

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Cheating can end a relationship, especially where both partners agreed to be exclusive. But relationships do not all have the same boundaries, and assumptions about commitment can lead to hurt and conflict. A recent survey of more than 10,000 Nigerians found that many people have cheated, while over half are in relationships without clear labels. The figures point to a bigger question: have partners clearly defined what commitment, exclusivity and betrayal mean to them? For some couples, flirting, emotional intimacy or kissing another person crosses the line. Others may agree to different boundaries. What matters is mutual consent and honesty. Breaking an agreed boundary can be a betrayal, regardless of the type of relationship. Leaving after infidelity is valid, but staying and trying to rebuild can also be a personal choice. Clear conversations about exclusivity, emotional boundaries and changing expectations can prevent painful misunderstandings.

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