I Use Men and Dump Them: A Woman’s Guide to Self-Value in Dating

I think Nigerian men in 2026 still don’t know what women want. Women are often called money-minded, but money buys food, security, and peace of mind. Men must value themselves first. When you overvalue others, you lose your own worth. A wise person asks, “Why can’t they come to me?” instead of chasing every invitation. Pursuit proves desire in business and in love. In dating, spending is a barometer of interest. Small gifts, transport fares, or a modest meal show you care. Splitting the bill on a first date is a red flag—it was your idea, so you should treat her. Women “bill” for two reasons: financial billing tests your seriousness, and emotional billing seeks reassurance through calls or favors. Both protect them from getting hurt. True love starts with self-love—value yourself, and you’ll know how to value others.

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