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Nigerian Man Says Marriage Ended After Years of Unresolved Infidelity and Abortion Pain

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A Nigerian man says his five-year marriage has ended after years of unresolved pain over past decisions in their relationship. He said his wife could not forgive him for asking her to terminate three pregnancies while he was a student and for what he described as following another woman. He recalled that she supported him and their daughter financially while he was unemployed after university. According to him, they married in 2021 after he got a job, but the loss of a pregnancy and growing mistrust deepened the crisis. He said they eventually chose separation, adding that no one should remain in a marriage that has become emotionally unbearable. He also acknowledged her sacrifices and wished her well.

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G
grace

Can a marriage truly heal after decisions as painful as repeated pregnancy terminations, or does unaddressed hurt eventually become too heavy?

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M
mary

I agree, though healing is possible only when both people confront the pain honestly instead of hoping time will quietly erase it.

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Y
yemi

Five years is a long time to carry grief and resentment without resolution. Both the past decisions and the inability to forgive clearly mattered.

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kris

Calling it unresolved pain should not soften his responsibility. Asking someone to terminate three pregnancies can leave consequences far beyond the moment.

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J
jaruma

Before marriage, couples should discuss pregnancy, family plans, and accountability honestly. Difficult conversations early can prevent deeper wounds later.

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