Does Being Too Available Make You Less Attractive?

Imagine sending Davido a message and getting an instant reply. At first, you would be excited. But if he kept chatting with you all day, every day, that excitement might fade because his attention would no longer feel rare. The same idea can apply in dating. Constantly replying immediately, even after someone ignores you for days, may make it seem as though you have no boundaries or other priorities. Being caring is not the problem. The point is to keep your own goals, routine and self-respect, rather than making someone else the centre of your time.

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