I came across this on Facebook, what's your take "I got married 8 years back thou i wasnt fully ready den but because i was pregnant nd of course its a man I truly love den. But rite now my mind is out of d marriage. Y because of dirtyness. My husband is so lazy nd dirty to d entend dt i cant endure it anymore. U will ask me if i dont c it while we were dating of couse Yes it was very glearing because anytime i came visiting i will meet d house messy right from d living room to d kitchen nd to d bathroom. Fine am not d lazy type nd cleaning is not my problem even washing. But for d past 2 years now i cant stand it anymore i av 2 kids am taking care of nd i cant be taking care of u again. U r an adult pls grow up but my husband will not chnage. He can go a full day without having his bath. I stop washing his cloth because he did not appreciate it. Anytime he has money dts when he knows am not always washing d cloth clean so i stop washing his cloth totaly. He can put on same cloth for 3 good days nd d cloth will be smelling he wont mind. Anytime he not going out u will use God to beg him b4 he brush his teeth. Ive complained to d entendw dt its becoming a fight almost everyday at home. If i traveled for a week nd i open d door to d house d odors dt will weclcom me r not from dis planet. Am sick nd tired of all dis am growing up nd i dont av d strength to work like b4 nd again there is no much presently to take maid or any1 to help me out. If his life is on d floor he will step on it nd go his way so far he dis not need it at dt moment ones hes in need of it he will start scattering d whole house again. Pls advice me on what to do i dont like dirtyness. God knows am trying my best but am not happy in dis marriage again. Nd dis thing has been affecting our sex life. Am not always wet anytime we want to make love again i dont find him attractive anymore. Sorry for d long post"