Is Virginity Still a Realistic Standard for Marriage Today?

The debate over virginity and marriage standards continues. I believe men and women have traditionally been assessed differently: men by their ability to provide and women by their sexual discipline. In many families, a prospective husband is questioned about his work, income and capacity to support a home. A prospective wife may be assessed for her character, values and sexual history. I see virginity as a sign of self-control and discipline, especially in a changing society. Others may disagree with these expectations or argue that both partners should be held to the same standard. Is virginity still a realistic and worthwhile expectation for marriage today, and should it apply equally to men and women?

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