How Marrying a Narcissist Pushed Me to Violence: A Marriage Diary

I rushed into marriage at 28 because I didn’t want to hit 30 still single. He seemed perfect—charming, financially secure, from a respected family—but the loving partner vanished after we said “I do.” Disagreements turned into punishments and I learned silence was safer than speaking up. Verbal jabs gave way to physical abuse and I found myself striking back just to protect my dignity. Years of hidden infidelities—at least six affairs I discovered—left me emotionally drained and physically unwell. I stayed for our children, believing my sacrifice was noble. Now I’m preparing to leave. I’ve realized that love alone isn’t enough; true partnership requires kindness, mutual respect, and safety. I’m finally choosing myself, hoping to rebuild a life where my peace matters as much as theirs.

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