To be honest with you, in as much as the modern world made us believe that “it’s not a big deal to have a child outside wedlock” “so long as you are financially stable, you can go ahead and have a child for any man of your choice” My dear, I’m aware your life , how you live it, it’s your business, but there are certain things that are not just all about you, so long as you introduced a third party (a child) into your it. Before you decided to become a baby mama for any man out there, there are few things I would love you to understand. 1. YOUR CHOICES BECOME LIMITED 2. YOU MIGHT RAISE A BITTER CHILD 3. LACK OF SELF TRUST/ SELF CONFIDENCE 4. STIGMATIZATION 5. YOU MIGHT END UP BECOMING A DESPERATE PERSON More details in the video below