Before You Entertain an Ex, Ask: Did They Ever Want a Future With You?
An ex who returns for attention or intimacy shortly before a wedding or during a marriage may not be offering a genuine future. It is worth asking whether they ever showed real commitment when they had the opportunity. Do not risk a stable relationship for someone who may only be seeking temporary access or validation. If they never discussed marriage or made meaningful plans with you before, be cautious about their sudden interest now. Value your spouse or partner, protect your boundaries and focus on the life you are building together.
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