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My Best Friend Secretly Dated My Ex Months After Our Breakup

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My best friend and I had been inseparable since secondary school. She supported me through the painful end of my first serious relationship, which ended because my ex and I had incompatible blood types. Months later, I noticed she became uncomfortable whenever I mentioned him. She denied anything was happening, until I saw them together at a restaurant. She eventually admitted that they had been dating in secret for three months. The relationship hurt, but the deception hurt more. I chose to end our friendship, forgive her from a distance and accept that I could never trust her the same way again.

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jaruma

Did your friend ever tell you why she kept the relationship hidden, especially after supporting you through that breakup?

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julia

Have you had a chance to ask her directly what made her keep it from you?

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mel

The secrecy is likely what makes this hurt deeper; you expected honesty from someone who knew how painful the breakup was.

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jayjay

Months after a breakup, your ex was free to date, but your friend still owed you a direct conversation rather than awkward silence.

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emeka

Have one calm conversation first: ask what happened, say how the secrecy affected you, then decide what boundaries this friendship needs.

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