How Much Choice Should Parents Give Young Children?

I once overheard a mother ask her young son whether he liked a can of condensed milk. When he said he hated it, she apologised and let him choose something else. I wondered whether giving a child that much control over everyday decisions could make it harder to set boundaries later on. Children should feel loved and included, but parents and guardians also need to guide them. From what I learnt from my own parents, it is important not to rush in whenever a child faces a challenge. Give them a chance to work things out, and step in when they need help. This can help build confidence and independence for the future.

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