5 Nigerians on the Complicated Relief of Losing Toxic Relatives

Family is often expected to feel safe and supportive. But for some people, years of abuse, manipulation, conflict and intimidation can make grief after a relative’s death deeply complicated. Five Nigerians share why they felt relief alongside sadness after losing relatives who had caused pain in their families. Their experiences include domestic abuse, land disputes, family rivalry and mothers-in-law who fuelled lasting conflict. The stories show that mourning is not always simple. Sometimes, the end of a harmful person’s presence can also mean safety, peace and a chance for family relationships to heal.

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