My Girlfriend Earns More Than Me, but Others Think It Will Ruin Our Future

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I met Roseline at a tech conference in 2025, and we started dating after two months of talking. From our first brunch date, when she spent about ₦90,000, I realised she was comfortable paying for things without making it an issue. She earns about ₦2 million monthly in a senior fintech role, while I earned ₦550,000 at the time. The gap has not caused problems between us. We both pay for dates, exchange thoughtful gifts and enjoy spending time together without pressure or constant requests for money. However, my friends and family worry that her wealth could become an issue if we marry. They question whether she would be comfortable leaving her family home in Ikoyi for a more modest life with me. I am considering proposing and saving towards our wedding, but I am also working towards a better-paying job and hoping we can build a financial future together.

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