Young Men: Build Your Life Before Making Love Your Priority
Young men, there is nothing wrong with loving a woman, dating seriously or planning a future together. The problem starts when a relationship becomes the centre of your life before you have built a solid life of your own. Do not spend years chasing one person while neglecting your career, education, finances, health, skills and personal growth. Relationships can change, and people are free to choose different paths. Love someone deeply, but do not make your future depend entirely on the promise that they will never leave. If you are still finding your feet, focus on becoming more useful and stable. Learn valuable skills, build your career, save money, protect your health and develop emotional maturity. A good relationship should support your growth, not make you abandon your ambitions. Build yourself first. If she stays, you will both have something meaningful to build on. If she leaves, you will still have your skills, character and the life you created.
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