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I Finally Landed My Crush – Only to Discover He Was Still in Love with His Ex

I Finally Landed My Crush – Only to Discover He Was Still in Love with His Ex

I spent years crushing on Jacob before he finally admitted he had feelings for me. At first, everything felt perfect – our calls, dates, and the moment he asked me to be his girlfriend. But after four months, he started avoiding my calls and blaming work stress. My gut told me something was off. I checked his ex’s social media and realised he’d never truly let her go. He broke up with me and soon reunited with his ex on Valentine’s Day – posting photos and a message that made me feel like a placeholder. His honesty hurt more than lies, so I blocked them both and began to heal. Now, I’ve vowed never to date someone less than six months out of a relationship. I still believe in love, but I’ll never be anyone’s rebound again.

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kris

How would you handle discovering your partner's heart still belongs to an ex after months of seemingly perfect dates and calls?

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zaza

That's rough, you deserve someone fully present. I go talk am straight up and set clear boundaries before moving forward.

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ade

Sounds like he's using work stress as an excuse to avoid real conversations about his feelings for his ex.

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kunle

I get why you waited for him, but did you consider trusting your instincts sooner instead of hoping he'd change?

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peter

Focus on rebuilding your confidence by setting clear boundaries and choosing someone fully present and invested in your relationship.

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