She Chats but Won’t Meet and Keeps Asking for Money — What’s Really Going On?

I’m a student chatting with a girl in a different department. My only interest was to hook up, not start a relationship, but we’ve never met because she keeps delaying our plans. She often messages asking for small amounts (₦1k, ₦2k) before any hangout. I made it clear I wouldn’t send her money without meeting her first, but she still bills me whenever she feels like it. Recently, she sent her brother to ask me for money to buy food. I refused and he called me out for toasting his sister without support. It felt strange and disrespectful. Has anyone else dealt with this kind of behaviour? What do you think her real motive is?

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