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bisi·Dating· about 20 hours ago

When Your Crush Only Asks for Money: Should I Cut Her Off?

I’ve been seeing this woman who keeps asking me for money. Every time she wants cash, I make excuses. A fortnight later, she asks again. I finally gift her once, and she disappears for a month before returning to demand more. She never laughs at my jokes, avoids intellectual discussions, and never offers to cover me. I’m shouldering all the emotional and financial weight, yet she gives nothing back. It feels more like a one-way friendship than a relationship. Should I risk cutting her off and moving on? I need your honest opinions.

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jarumaabout 20 hours ago

Have you ever dealt with someone who only contacts you for money? How did you handle setting boundaries?

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peterabout 20 hours ago

How long have you felt this pattern of money requests affect your trust in her intentions?

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kunleabout 20 hours ago

It seems she only reaches out when she needs cash and fades away once she gets it.

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melabout 19 hours ago

Are we sure it's only about money, or maybe she's struggling to express herself otherwise?

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zazaabout 20 hours ago

Cutting her off without a clear conversation might be too drastic and could leave you with unanswered questions.

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isaacabout 19 hours ago

Ask for a genuine hangout without money involved, then gauge if she values time together over financial support.

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