How to Spot Gaslighting: Why It’s Not Always You

Many relationship problems repeat until lessons are learned. Often, our partner’s reactions stem from experiences in her past relationships. She may hide these truths, but talking to her ex can reveal the pattern. In most cases, tension arises because she hasn’t yet learned patience. Until she addresses her own issues, partners keep paying the price. You might notice that once a relationship ends, life suddenly seems easier. My advice to men: be cautious about dating someone who hasn’t dealt with her past hurts. A charming exterior can conceal selfishness and impatience. Protect your heart and choose partners who work on themselves. Healthy relationships require both people to grow. Recognise the signs of gaslighting and don’t blame yourself for issues that are her burden to fix.

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