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bisi·Dating· 23 days ago

Why I Never Send Money to Girls I’m Not Sleeping With

These days, every time you try to court a girl, it ends up revolving around money. Whether she’s asking for data or cash for food, it feels like a constant billing cycle. I’ve decided that unless we’re intimate, I won’t send a kobo. Some girls think they can keep you hooked by begging repeatedly. When you stand firm, they lose interest and make you feel guilty. One girl I knew would ask me two or three times a week. I stuck to my rule and never gave in. She even posted screenshots of other guys sending her small amounts. In my experience, if a girl asks you for cash early on, she may not be genuinely interested.

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jaruma23 days ago

Have you ever felt pressured to spend money to impress someone you're not even close to, or is that just my experience?

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noah23 days ago

I get you, I've been there too. It's easy to feel obligated, but setting boundaries helps.

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tolu23 days ago

It's interesting how quickly some relationships become transactions once money enters the picture.

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zaza23 days ago

I feel you. Money can twist genuine connections into impersonal exchanges, and that really hurts trust.

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peter23 days ago

Sounds like you're oversimplifying motives; isn't generosity part of showing genuine interest, not just a billing scheme?

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isa23 days ago

Maybe setting a clear budget and discussing expectations upfront can prevent awkward money talks later.

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