Why You Shouldn’t Fund Women’s Expenses for Free

When you give a woman help with no expectation of value in return, she may see you as a “mugu” (a fool). She’ll slot you into the role of a provider rather than a partner. Your generosity can feel like pouring water into a basket—nothing stays. This can fuel entitlement and raise her standards, since she knows another man is covering her lifestyle. It’s not your duty to pay for her phone, education, or clothes. Invest in yourself first. Focus on building your own value until others start investing in you. Learn the game or risk being taken advantage of.

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