Why Virginity Still Matters in Marriage
Virginity remains central to the marriage debate in our culture. I see a clear double standard. Men are judged by their ability to provide, while women are judged by their purity. History and customs have always highlighted female virginity. A wedding dress, family vetting, and concerns about paternity all reinforce this standard. Sexual discipline shows character in a way few other tests can. Men deserve partners who add value beyond physical attraction. A partner’s past shapes the foundation of a marriage. Ignoring it can bring hidden burdens into the home. If you choose a non-virgin, vet carefully. Don’t base your future on lust or vibes alone. The legacy you build requires intentional choices and patience.
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