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kunle·Dating· about 2 months ago

Why Virginity Still Matters in Marriage

Virginity remains central to the marriage debate in our culture. I see a clear double standard. Men are judged by their ability to provide, while women are judged by their purity. History and customs have always highlighted female virginity. A wedding dress, family vetting, and concerns about paternity all reinforce this standard. Sexual discipline shows character in a way few other tests can. Men deserve partners who add value beyond physical attraction. A partner’s past shapes the foundation of a marriage. Ignoring it can bring hidden burdens into the home. If you choose a non-virgin, vet carefully. Don’t base your future on lust or vibes alone. The legacy you build requires intentional choices and patience.

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graceabout 2 months ago

Do you think men's provider role and women's virginity standards can ever be equal?

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princeabout 2 months ago

When you talk about balance, what specific changes would make those expectations fairer for both men and women?

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kakaabout 2 months ago

Interesting that history and customs always highlight female virginity, while men's premarital behavior rarely faces similar scrutiny.

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yemiabout 2 months ago

Putting virginity above honesty and mutual respect seems outdated and unfair to women living under these cultural expectations.

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krisabout 2 months ago

Couples should discuss expectations openly before marriage, addressing cultural and personal values around purity and partnership together.

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