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femi·Family· about 1 month ago

Bring Value, Not Expenses: Wife’s Terms for Husband’s Second Marriage

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Buithat Hudu insists that any woman aiming to become her husband’s second wife must start by buying her a car. She explains that she has already invested ten years emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually in the marriage. According to Hudu, her home isn’t a charity. She says a co-wife without her own career or direction would be a liability, not a partner in the relationship. She stresses that any hopeful candidate must offer true contribution rather than simply consume the benefits she worked hard to build.

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adeabout 1 month ago

What do you think about Hudu's requirement for a car before a second wife joins the family? Is it fair or too much?

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peterabout 1 month ago

Seems fair to ask for better transport and stability before adding responsibilities.

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krisabout 1 month ago

Surely a car shouldn't be the main proof of commitment. Marriage needs more than material demands, no be so?

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kunleabout 1 month ago

She don invest ten years emotionally, so to demand a car reflects her pain, but e still fit make others uneasy.

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zazaabout 1 month ago

This car demand feels transactional. Marriage isn't just a business deal, and setting such terms risks turning love into a contract.

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noahabout 1 month ago

A practical alternative is setting up a joint investment fund or savings plan for both spouses, rather than insisting on a pricey gift before marriage.

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