Am I Just a Backup? Dating a Woman Who Has a Boyfriend

I met a woman over a year ago and she said she already had a boyfriend, but we could be friends. We bonded over faith and she told me I was caring. We visited each other often, and I even told my wife about her. She said she couldn’t marry me or be a second wife. She also said she was a virgin and wouldn’t have sex with me, although we could get close. We spent late nights talking on the phone and she sometimes borrowed money. I now owe her ₦40,000. One day I visited her and her boyfriend arrived with a hammer, angry at me. She protected me and I left quickly. My wife then blocked her on Facebook, and they both blocked me on WhatsApp. She still wants a friendship and I plan to repay the money soon. But I don’t want to stay in contact to avoid being hurt again.

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