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isaac·Dating· 1 day ago

She Ghosted Me for Five Years Then Asked for Money – Why?

I met this girl during her NYSC in Lagos in 2021. She asked for directions, gave me her number, but always seemed cold on calls or messages. After months of polite dating attempts, I stopped chasing when it was clear she wasn’t interested. This week, I saw missed calls from an unknown number. When I called back, she introduced herself and asked for money. She sounded almost proud, as if I owed her support. I blocked her and wondered why someone would stay silent for years then suddenly reappear only to request cash. Should I have handled this differently?

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jesse1 day ago

Why would she reappear after five years only to ask for money?

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peter1 day ago

You're right, it does feel suspicious she only showed up after years asking for cash.

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jaruma1 day ago

It seems odd that she showed no interest back then but now reaches out with financial requests.

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tolu1 day ago

Maybe she always needed help, not romance, so you misread the whole situation.

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noah1 day ago

Next time, set clear boundaries and confirm her intentions before offering any financial support.

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