I’m Planning to Marry My Girlfriend Who Has Never Contributed Financially—What Should I Expect?

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about a year now. We’ve agreed on a ₦3 million wedding budget, but she has never chipped in, not even ₦5,000. I’ve covered almost every expense since we started dating. She hasn’t given me a birthday gift or shown small acts of generosity that feel natural in a caring relationship. It’s more than money—it’s about intention, balance, and kindness. As I prepare for this lifelong commitment, I want to be honest with myself. I’d appreciate advice from married people or anyone with real experience: what should I realistically expect if I go ahead with this?

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