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Even Solomon Raised a Rehoboam: Rethinking Parental Blame

Hello everyone, Solomon was the richest and wisest king. He received wisdom directly from God and built the temple. He even wrote Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Song of Songs. Yet his son Rehoboam mismanaged the throne and lost ten tribes in three days. This proves that even the greatest parents can raise children who stray. If Solomon did his best, why do we crucify parents when adult children go wrong? Parenting is influence, not control. At some point, each person must choose their own path. 1. Is parenting fully responsible for an adult’s choices? 2. Can a good home still produce a ‘bad product’? 3. When should we stop blaming parents and start holding adults accountable? I defend parents who did their best but still got a Rehoboam. Share your thoughts!

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G
grace

What lessons can modern parents draw from Solomon's oversight of Rehoboam's upbringing and leadership decisions?

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M
mary

Are you interested in how setting clear boundaries versus offering freedom shapes leadership skills?

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Y
yemi

Even the wisest guidance doesn't guarantee responsible heirs if practical wisdom isn't coupled with character training.

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K
kris

Blaming Solomon alone ignores the court's sway and Rehoboam's personal choices in those critical early days.

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J
jaruma

Perhaps setting clear expectations and involving mentors early could help parents avoid repeating Solomon's oversight with their teens.

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