I Went Through Four Abortions for Him—Then He Married Another Woman
I grew up as a pastor’s daughter in a strict Christian home. My parents drilled into me that premarital sex was wrong and abortion was murder. At university, I met Tade. He showed me affection my family never gave. When I first got pregnant at 21, he persuaded me to abort. Over the next five years, I agreed to three more procedures—even though each time I wrestled with guilt and fear. Those years left me scarred. I worried about my health and battled my faith. Tade always reassured me, but he never truly understood my pain. Then, just months after our fifth anniversary, I learned he was marrying someone else. I never confronted him or asked for closure. Today, I’ve lost trust in men and can’t imagine letting anyone that close again.
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