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jude·Dating· 4 days ago

My Female Coursemate Humiliated Me at the Campus Gate – What Should I Do?

I’m a final-year student at a prominent Lagos university. I’m friendly and get along well with my coursemates. There’s a female coursemate I’m close to, but we’re just friends. I didn’t see her in class for a week. When I finally met her at the school gate, I greeted her and playfully blocked her path. She yelled at me in front of everyone, telling me to leave her alone. I felt deeply humiliated and left immediately. I understand she might have been in a bad mood, but her outburst seemed unfair. How can I respond to this public embarrassment and prevent something like this from happening again?

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jaruma4 days ago

Have you talked to her about how her reaction made you feel and asked why she humiliated you at the gate?

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julia4 days ago

Have you tried asking what exactly she meant by calling you out at the gate?

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bola4 days ago

Yes, try sit her down gently to express how her actions affected you, then ask for her side.

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mel4 days ago

It seems odd she ignored a friendly greeting for a whole week before calling you out in public like that.

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jayjay4 days ago

Maybe you're assuming too much by labelling her pause as humiliation without asking what was really on her mind.

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emeka4 days ago

I think you should clear the air privately with her first before any gossip spreads across campus.

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