He Sent My Wife a Late-Night Voice Note—Should I Be Worried?

I saw my wife receive a voice note from a male friend at about 10pm. In the message, he said, “What I mean is I would like you and I to sleep together.” I also noticed she had taken and received calls from him. When I asked her about setting boundaries, she claimed she blocks many guys, and that the voice note was meant for someone else. I pressed her for details about this other person, but she said it was none of my business. When I insisted that marriage needs respect and transparency, she replied, “You’re not the only man.” I’m not accusing her of cheating—I only want clear boundaries. Am I overreacting, or is this a red flag?

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