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Woman Questions Why Abuja Men Are No Longer Making the First Move

Woman Questions Why Abuja Men Are No Longer Making the First Move

A woman has questioned why she believes many Abuja men are no longer making the first move toward women. She says women have tried to meet men’s expectations, yet many still feel overlooked in the dating scene. Her comment has sparked a wider conversation about dating expectations, confidence and gender roles in Abuja.

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B
bisi

Do Abuja men feel the expectations around making the first move have changed, or is this mostly a mismatch in who notices whom?

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J
jude

Could it be that both sides are waiting for clearer signals before anybody shoots their shot?

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Y
yemi

Her point seems to reflect a wider frustration: people may be trying to meet expectations while still feeling unseen in dating.

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K
kris

It may be too broad to frame this as Abuja men simply refusing to approach; dating expectations can affect both sides.

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J
jaruma

Clearer signals and more direct conversations could help. Waiting for one side to carry every first move can leave everyone overlooked.

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