When Our Domestic Help Almost Tore Our Marriage Apart
Fade and Gbenro met in 2017 and tied the knot after a year of dating. Their early marriage was smooth—until pregnancy struck and illness made everyday life a struggle. To cope, they hired a maid recommended by family. The first helper was reliable, but after she left, the second domestic help began hovering around Gbenro whenever Fade was away for hospital appointments. Small disagreements flared into fights, all under their maid’s watchful eye. Fade’s family intervention finally opened their eyes to how much the helper had come between them. They dismissed her—but the tension only intensified when Gbenro rehired her without telling Fade. In time, they recognised the pattern as a test of their bond. They chose prayer, honest conversations and agreed never to hire another domestic help. Today, nearly a decade in, their marriage stands stronger. This story is part of our Love Life series. Share your own relationship journey with us.
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