He Wants Me to Move In—Am I Making the Right Choice?

I’m in my final year at university and juggling grades with planning my future. A friend introduced me to her cousin a few months ago, and we quickly grew close. He’s stable, calm, and very intentional. Now he’s asking me to move in. He says he sees a future with me and wants us to build our life together. Part of me loves the idea of living as a real couple. But my friends and even his cousin are worried. They warn that moving in prematurely could lower his incentive to formalise things with marriage. I respect their advice but also trust my partner. I’m torn and don’t want to act on fear or regret it later. What would you do in my place?

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