When My Fiancee Told Me to See Her Pastor Before Marriage

Good day everyone. I’ve been thinking seriously about marriage, but my girlfriend doesn’t seem ready to settle down. I’ve spoken to her directly, her mother, and her best friend, yet she still directed me to talk to her pastor. I swallowed my pride and visited him. Instead of discussing our relationship, he focused on my finances. He quizzed me on my salary, my source of income, and whether I could provide for his “spiritual daughter.” I assured him I’m not lazy and can take care of her. It’s been over a week since that meeting, and she’s been distant. Now I’m torn: should I press on with my proposal or move on and find someone else?

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