Should You Stay or Leave? Six Nigerian Women Across Generations Debate When Marriage Should End
A discussion brings together six Nigerian women from different age groups to explore whether divorce can ever be justified. Charity (29, Gen Z) insists marriage vows mean forever and warns against entering a union with an exit plan. Ife (51, Gen X) once opposed divorce but changed her view after learning her mother’s suffering, arguing that leaving is right when a relationship destroys your well-being. Lizzy (56, Gen X) would only separate in cases of abuse and believes weathering hard times can strengthen a marriage. Millennial Faiza (40) says there’s no universal standard for divorce—each couple must decide based on their own dealbreakers. Gen Z Amaka (24) rejects romanticising sacrifice and asks whether the relationship truly makes you better off. Late Gen Z Rahma (17) goes further, celebrating divorce as an act of courage when a marriage becomes destructive.
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