She Keeps Calling Me 'Sir': How Can I Ask Her Out?
I am a single father of three. I retired from commercial driving last year after severe back pain. Now I work nights as a security guard at a guest house. I have constant light and water while students and workers nearby struggle. I helped a young hairdresser friend by letting her use my compound to film videos. I grew fond of her but her constant ‘good morning, sir’ frustrated me. I once slipped a note of my feelings onto her phone but got no reply. Then an electrician showed interest in her and she told him she has a boyfriend. Since then her ‘sir’ greeting has made me doubt myself. I want to ask her what she thinks, but I lack the courage. I feel lonely and need advice on how to approach women who treat me like an elder. I welcome any tips on breaking the ‘sir’ barrier and making real connections.
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