Flirting in Nigeria: Are We Getting It Wrong?
Flirting should be light and playful, but many Nigerians use it as a direct path to a relationship. Overanxious calls and mixed signals often leave both men and women confused. Mariam, 29, thought her date was sweet until he called nonstop and claimed that right as her “future boyfriend.” Shola, 24, pulled back when a woman’s bold advances felt like hostility. Our upbringing and Nollywood clichés gave few models for easy romance. We end up insulting people we like or rushing to force connections. Keep it simple: start with eye contact, light touches, and small gestures. Offer specific compliments and let tension build naturally over time.
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