How Do I Deal With a Pathological Liar Brother-in-Law Who’s a Pastor?

My brother-in-law runs his own ministry and has been married to my younger sister for 14 years. He lies so badly that he fabricates grand stories about me and my family. He claims he saved me from hunger and that feeding me for four months in 2014 cost over ₦2 million. In reality, I ate once a day because I was working long hours. He also says he ‘rescued me from the village’ when my father supposedly abandoned me, even though I was 27 then. Now he wants to reconcile but is slandering my sister. He accuses her of video-chatting for money, having a boyfriend, and even poisoning him—none of which he can prove. My sister has been safe with me for three months, yet he tells his church she’s living with another man. I don’t know what he really wants or how to protect my sister and confront his lies.

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